Mother (Sarah Jane nee Goulton Goatcher) & some descendants |
Caption by Annie Goatcher 1943 [Photographer Philip Richard Goatcher (1889-1944) ?] |
Hazel Goatcher and Dr. Philip Pratley |
Dr. Philip Pratley and the Church of Christ |
Hazel (nee Goatcher) and Ralph Hibbard in 1972. |
Ralph Hibbard is the man on the right. |
How often have we heard you can't see the forest for the trees? Well to me Aunt Hazel was the forest. Each tree may be outstanding in one memorable way but the forest is made up of all the outstanding trees.
The forest of life is made up great qualities and character. Everyone knew and saw Aunt Hazel differently . Some knew her all of their lives as either a sibling or a parent, grandmother , great grandmother or aunt, some were long time friends . To all she made a deep and lasting impression on our hearts.
The qualities that made Aunt Hazel a forest we're loving kindness, strength and endurance for hard work, the ability to enjoy each moment for what it was. I know Aunt Hazel believed that these were her gifts from God.
Aunt Hazel showed loving kindness to all she met. She showered it on her family as she was raising them. Her sister Dot and family moved in with the Hibbards after Tom passed away. Aunt Hazel showed endurance and kindness. She alway let you know you were loved and endured the work of now having 9 people to cook and care for not to forget the ability to enjoy the moment when 9 people had to share a bathroom. As the wife of an elder of the church Aunt Hazel often cooked meals for Sunday visitors. You were always made to feel welcome .
While some would say Aunt Hazel had a relatively easy life we have to remember that she didn't always have today's technology to make life easier. Before she was married she was "in service" and I don't believe that was easy. Raising a family is never easy and yet she raised a kind and loving family and made it look easy. Keeping up with family and church activities takes time, strength and endurance.
Aunt Haze enjoyed the moments in her life. She enjoyed her family and friends. She enjoyed singing and playing games such as Scrabble. What Aunt Hazel enjoyed most was working for her Lord. As people age and the end of life is near they sometimes focus on the most special times to them. For Aunt Hazel this was when she was teaching Sunday School.
So while some won't see Aunt Hazel as a memorable tree they will see her for the forest. She was a truly remarkable person who loved life for all it was and showed us how to live it with the help of the Lord. Aunt Hazel you left a lasting impression on each of us here today. You made us better just by knowing you. You left the world of hurt and pain only to go to a place of glory. God bless you.